If you need me, I’ll be in my car.

If you need me, I’ll be in my car.

“Fall in love with your solitude.” ~Rupi Kuar   One of the unexpected delights of my days since my kids returned to in-person classes in February happens between 8:50 – 9:10 am. If you were to drive by my kids’ middle school at this time,...
Over-connected, under-nourished

Over-connected, under-nourished

Over-connected, under-nourished   Many years ago, a group of friends and colleagues gathered together at a local coffee shop to talk shop. We had set up a regular cadence of every two weeks, and we’d use each gathering to share ideas, brainstorm challenges...
Ambition? Meet reality.

Ambition? Meet reality.

It’s been my experience that when one person shares a challenge they’re facing, five more will follow in short succession to share the same challenge. Nobody knows of the other person’s struggle, and inevitably, each person feels like they’re...
Just start

Just start

You don’t have to have it all together to start that project, that business, that career transition or that personal pursuit.   You might be short time. You might be short money. You might be short experience. You might be short clarity. You might be short...
Focus is really about this.

Focus is really about this.

When we talk about focus, we often talk about strategies and tactics to minimize distraction, clarify priorities and “do the work.” We say to ourselves that if we could just get it together and stay focused on what matters, everything would improve. And so...
Old Rules, New Rules

Old Rules, New Rules

My daughter is a rule follower.   Teachers and coaches love her because she does what she’s told and stays quiet while doing it. She’s been recognized publicly by teachers numerous times hoping to make an example of her for the kids in the back. Over...
A leader in every chair

A leader in every chair

“Steph, listen – sometimes you just have to fly it up the flagpole, alright?”   These words came from a vice president at the non-profit I was working for at the time. My direct boss, along with my co-worker and I were sitting in a tiny meeting...

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