Traction takes time

Traction takes time

Traction takes time.   With my kids back at school for all of seven days, I’ve found myself having a lot of conversations with them about how it takes time to settle in and make friends and get the hang of things. I think they both hoped that they’d...
Why bum-in-chair time is overrated.

Why bum-in-chair time is overrated.

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What a week.

What a week.

What a week.   I write this to you after wrapping up our first full week of online learning. I’m exhausted. I’m frayed. I’m thrilled tomorrow is a PD day even though they’ve barely started school. We chose this path to be sure, and I...
What do I think about that?

What do I think about that?

*Before we begin, may I take a moment to acknowledge the injustice and hardship this past week has brought including the horrifying shooting of Jacob Blake (and lack of accountability thus far for the officer who shot him) and ensuing protests that have left two dead,...
Decision fatigue is real. And I have it.

Decision fatigue is real. And I have it.

I am really tired of making decisions.   Small decisions: What should we eat for dinner tonight on this 7 bazillioneth meal at home? Is it best for me to tell the five people I saw today at Safeway that wearing a mask (now mandatory) means covering your mouth AND...
I’m not made for this.

I’m not made for this.

Welcome to a slightly refreshed Leadership Letters! Tomorrow I’ll be celebrating my 43rd birthday. It’s a pretty anti-climatic one, given that it’s neither a milestone birthday nor one I can celebrate in ways I typically would. And that’s fine...
Impact > Intent

Impact > Intent

This week has been hard.   There’s much to unpack and talk about, but today I want to share one piece that might be helpful. When I log on to social media, I see a lot of white people (myself included) trying to do the “right thing.” We’re...
The work is ours to do

The work is ours to do

The Occupation I will tell you how it was the world changed, she said — and darkness wrapped us round. I heard her clearly, though I barely heard the words. It was nearly — yes — as if she were singing. Our job, she was saying, is not to change the...
Close the gaps

Close the gaps

“The most important possible thing you can do, is do a lot of work.” ~Ira Glass Over my years in coaching, I’ve heard many, many stories about something being ‘too hard’ or ‘too overwhelming’. And I’ve heard stories like, “I’m just not good at technology” or “I...